It's true; love is not a science. Relationships are all different. The chemistry and connection between every two unique individuals IS unique! Therefore, I don't believe love and relationships are things that people can go to school and obtain a degree for. My degrees are in psychology, which helps me better understand people. The brain and the mind are sciences that can be studied. I call myself the Dating Dr. in jest. Follow your heart and your gut.
So, where is this rant coming from? Tonight, I was searching for other dating blogs to get some ideas for topics of future posts. I came across a site by someone claiming, "I am a personal trainer for women who want to fall in love." Really? Come on. Seriously? That's a crock. He calls himself a dating coach for strong, smart, successful women. Literally, this is what his website says. We're talking about love. It's like life. There is no instruction book. There are no clear cut rights or wrongs. By all means, take some well-intentioned advice (like my blog), but at the end of day, do what feels right and true to you.
Take away lesson: Love is not a science that can be mastered and taught to others!
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