It's tough for guys to put themselves out there. I get it. But, a confident, take-charge kind of guy is appealing!
On numerous occasions after a date, I've received the "It was great meeting you. Let me know if you'd like to do it again." text message. In a way, it conveys interest and sounds polite to let the woman decide, but what I want to say is, "Step up and ask me out on a second date if you want a second date!" I've never actually said that, though. Guys, don't put the pressure on the girls. We want to be pursued. If you were interested, go out on a limb and ask us out. Worst case scenario? We say no, but you'll probably never run into us again...not so bad, right?
Take Away Lesson: Men, be men! If you're interested, show it by asking the girl out again. Oh, most importantly, this should be done either on the phone or in person (at the end of the first date), not over text message!
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